Let us first understand the difference
between the terms issue, problem and mess in detail. Though they all seem synonymous,
there is a significant difference between them. They vary with the degree of
intensity. It is essential to understand this difference clearly, so that we may
address it accordingly. An issue in general is an isolated occurrence; though
it is sure to cause some discomfort, it may have a solution, an alternative readily
available. The impact is usually restricted to the person in question. This
should be considered as a budding stage. Issues neglected continuously transforms
into a problem sooner or later.
Problems on the other hand are more complex
in nature and can be perceived as a situation a person that needs to be corrected
in order to arrive at a desired outcome. In this phase the impact is felt on
some or a greater part of the group. It may take a while to surface and does
not get resolved automatically. Solution can only be arrived at with a forethought
and discussion with the impacted group.
Multiple problems left unattended over a
period of time result in a mess. This stage is very complex in nature and may
seem to have little or no hope for a resolution in sight. At this level, any
wrong step taken by any individual of the group only complicates and deteriorates
the situation even further. Though it may seem perfectly normal on the surface,
be assured that underneath is an active volcano roaring to erupt. All it needs
now is a slight tap to the breaking point.
Now that we understand the perfect recipe for
a mess, it seems only normal to act on the isolated issue - at the budding stage.
But surprisingly, we tend to ignore it at this level. Also, shockingly we tend
to live with the next phase too, till it comes to a grinding halt. Few reasons
that this occurs may be:
·
We may be too lazy to
address the issue at the budding stage.
·
We do not believe it may
develop into a serious issue and have major effects.
·
Unclear communication (one
that doesn't stress the seriousness enough) also is a major contributor.
·
Small tiffs between
individuals/groups ignored at the nascent stage.
·
Fail to prioritize this
issue as we may feel that there is far more important stuff.
·
Bias towards a particular
individual/group is a very frequent and a strong reason too.
·
Hostility due to personal
grudge between two individuals/groups is the strongest and the most deadly one.
Whatever the case, issues and problems neglected
are sure to come back more complicated than ever. In messier situations the person
or the group may completely shut the communication channel with you (they may
be listening to you but are not willing to understand or participate in the resolution
process).
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